Tending to My Own Garden

I have a bad habit that needs to be broken.

I tend to tend to other people's business....I worry about the decisions they make, the debt they have, who they are sleeping with, where they are going, what their pet is doing, where their kids are and what they are doing, how their vacation is going, are they enjoying X.Y.Z.

When really....what others do is none of my damn business!

I guess I just want to take it upon myself to ensure that everyone is healthy, happy and essentially doing well.

Instead of using my time and nose on other people - I vow moving forward to not really give a rat's ass what they are doing. I don't care if my 'friend' is having an affair with her best friend's boyfriend... or that Betty & Joe just bought a new car...or if the folks down the road got a herd of cattle...or how such & such can afford to have their kitchen overhauled. I do not live their lives and what they do does not impact my life one ioda! I don't care what decisions people outside of my family make....And I need to just let my give a damn rest!!

It's time that I just S-T-O-P!! Just S-T-O-P!

My little circle of focus and care is small and getting smaller every day. All I need to do is spend my energies on my own home & family and let everyone else do their own thing....in their own way...on their own dime...and in their own time.

So....today I vow - No More!

Whew - I feel lighter already!