Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Mr. Smith Goes to Washington

Well....it was actually Mr. & Mrs. Smith...umm.. really it was SFC and Mrs. Richardson...but in the end we all went to Washington to attend the Commander-in-Chief Inaugural Ball.

"So, how was it"?

That seems to be the question of the day/week/month.

First, let me say we looked just A-W-E-S-O-M-E!!! See.....



















Told ya!!

So..back to "The Ball".

Ehhhh.

It was great to get dressed up. My opinions of the event are mine alone so I won't tolerate any snarkiness....

We had a great hotel (and location downtown) so walking 5 blocks to the convention center in 4 1/2 inch heels wasn't THAT bad. We breezed through Secret Security without a hitch and into the venue. Lines...lines! We opted not to check my coat and head upstairs; after all..I will just hang it over my chair. Uh...NO. There were no chairs! As a matter of fact..there were no tables. Had I known it was a stand-up meeting I would have worn something more comfortable. (There was a section for Wounded Warriors and their guest to one side with table and chair - perfectly necessary - had there been a need to give up my chair to a wounded warrior I no doubt would have in a split-second).

FOOD: There were two food table (I use the word "food" very loosely). Since the ball was held during dinner hours one would assume that there would be food. Again...NO. Very amateurish finger food/snacks: Pretzels, Chex-mix, tiny cheese chunks with crackers, spinach dip with empty bowls that did house pita chips for a second, meager vegetable tray and ranch dip...You get the idea! Very cheaply done! From the expression and remarks of those around us in line..Rich and I were not the only ones taken aback by the display.

Back to the 'no table, no chairs' - it was pitiful to see women dressed in beautiful ball gowns, soldiers of all ranks...propped up on walls or sitting on the floor to eat. I opted to not sit on the floor and removed my shoes to stand more comfortably. This was totally not acceptable and was a dishonor to our servicemembers and guests! A convention center of that size and magnitude surely had ample seating somewhere.

At 7:30 Brad Paisley started singing. There was not an emcee or program to let anyone know what or who to expect. He sang two songs, then it was walk around and around...waiting for anything to happen. After a considerable time the SGT Majors from all branches welcomed everyone and spoke a few words of gratitude and support. Then..more silence...at some point Alicia Keys sang a song, then about 10pm Jennifer Hudson sang and the President came out. Then the First Lady joined him in a dance...then  they each danced with a soldier. Once they left...more silence.

After about 20 minutes of standing there wondering if that was "it", Rich and and  ~ along with  MANY soldiers/guest, left. Again...no emcee or program. One would assume that it was over after the President said "Good Night and God Bless America". I hear sometime through the evening there were other speakers, dances and musicians. Rich and I hurried back to the hotel, changed and hit the sidewalks in search of any restaurant still open to feed us! I found a Ruby Tuesdays with 30 minutes to spare.

We couldn't help but wonder what the Other ball was like. The one with the glitz and glamour of celebrities...the one where tickets cost $120 - $1675 each to attend. We speculate (no proof mind you) that the Other ball had tables, chairs, food, decorations and an agenda. We felt that since the CIC Ball was Free...we got what we paid for. It was a letdown.

Oh the picture?? I have attended several Parties/Balls/Galas in my life. Usually there is a photographer poised to take your picture (for a nominal fee) in front of a photo-op. Rich and I stood in the picture line to find there was not a photographer. It was just a photo-op where you took the picture of the next couple in line using their digital camera..and they took yours.

While we were grateful for the nomination and selection...the opportunity to attend, grateful for our first trip to DC..we would definitely not go back to a CIC Ball if ever given the chance again.

Peace!

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Frustrating!!!!!!!

The Presidential Inauguration is on Mon. Jan 21. with the Commander-in-Chief Inaugral Ball to follow that evening. The US Military services were allotted 1465 tickets (pairs) for Servicemembers and their guest to attend the Ball. Those tickets were distributed throughout the various Branches of Service (Army, Navy, Marines, Air Force, Cost Guard). The Army was allotted 560 (pairs) tickets with the National Guard receiving 180. Each command had to nominate a Soldier that epitomizes the core values of the ANG. Within Rich's rank structure (E-7-E-9) their were 18 tickets allotted throughout the United States.

We knew that Rich (and I) had been nominated but what were the odds??? 18 tickets across the United States??? Well, Rich got the call YESTERDAY - 5 DAYS BEFORE THE EVENT that he had been selected to attend with his spouse - ME! There are OFFICIAL "tickets"/invitation with OUR names on them in Washington, DC!

We went into shock and panic mode rather quickly, as did the State NG - they never expected that an Alabama National Guardsman would be selected. Montgomery went into panic mode as to where the money would come from to pay for this?? Back and forth...back and forth they went.In the meantime I found a dress that is appropriate for the occasion ($250, bought it so it can be altered and ready in time.

We went ahead and booked a hotel in DC within the per diem rate...and waited.

Today we found out that the NG would not put me on travel orders with Rich and we would have to pay for my airline ticket (they went ahead and booked his for $800) if I was to attend with him. There is NO WAY in HELL that Rich would go with out me....his words - not mine. Rich called the airline to book and found an airline reservation for me  will cost $1750! Talk about a HUGE halt in everything. We certainly cannot justify that much for an airline ticket...even for the occasion....even is we could get the ticket at the military rate it would still be a stretch...doable but a stretch!

So tomorrow Rich will make another attempt with his unit/State NG Bureau. We are looking at just making the 10-12 hour drive instead..it just boggles our mind; although we both know not to think anything will go smoothly when dealing with the military.

Grrrrrr...fortunately Rich and I travel well together!

Peace!

Monday, January 14, 2013

I Have a Confession

No...it's not a deep down and dirty confession.. but a confession just the same.

I have a weakness for....

A love for....

Something...something bad...

I love...

CEREAL!!!!

Sugary, sweet, crunchy...Cereal!

I am southern and I love breakfast. Give me some eggs, grits and bacon and I am a happy girl. But lurking behind this 46 year old exterior is an 11 year old that looooves cereal!

Captain Crunch!
Cookie Crisp!
Life!
Mini Wheats!
Count Chocula, Boo Berry, Frankenberry!
Coco Puffs


I could eat cereal just about anytime of the day or evening. I actual had a bowl of Captain Crunch just before bedtime the other night. Yes, yes I did!

We buy Cheerios and Raisin Bran mostly....you know for our health and well-being. But recently we bought Captain Crunch as a recipe ingredient. When I open the pantry door the Captain calls my name "Renee my sweet, I'm waiting for you". Damn that man! I can't resist him!

He led me down the wrong path...the grocery aisle...to purchase Life cereal. I fear what will be next..Honeycomb! Apple Jacks!Fruit Loops!

Oh my!

A slippery slope I am on........

Peace!

Saturday, January 12, 2013

Goodbye..Such a sad feeling

It's 4:30am on Saturday. The house is quiet. Rich has just gone to to the gym in preparation for another day of drill. I have muffins baking in the oven.

Soon I will hear the stirring of my only daughter and her husband as they begin to begin their day. Having been home for two months (during most of the winter out West), they will wave goodbye and drive off in their loaded down car back to New Mexico.

As parents, Rich & I worked so hard to help our children grow and become independent, well-adjusted and mature adults. To take life and LIVE it ... to "get out of here" and experience what the World has to offer. We never wanted our children to be afraid to try...afraid to fly. We wanted them to find their happiness and never let my husband and I be the reason they didn't.. the reason they stayed...the reason they regretted. To love and be loved.  

It stinks to get it right! There is always a price to pay. 
 
I tell myself one day it will get easier to watch them leave but I just can't believe that lie...it leaves me sad and empty each and every time.


 Peace

Monday, January 7, 2013

Same Place..Not Again

I looked back over my blog from about this time last year...bad idea! I had such hopes and dreams about getting fit and healthy..doing new things..make new friends..enjoy new adventures - wine tour, learn to play golf, travel (even locally) - try new restaurants (Diner's Drive-in and Dives), cook more ..drink less..Facebook less and Blog more.

I'm in the exact same place I was then....I kinda feel like a huge loser about right now!

What the hell happened??

I know what will NOT happen...I will NOT sit here at my kitchen table this time next year and type these same words!

Forward March!

Peace!

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Oh Baby - and other news


It's January 2nd and already the year has brought about some great (and bittersweet) changes!

This amazing couple:








and Parents to this Beautiful little person (Evie):
are going to be the parents to a little BOY in May!!!

To add to the family changes, Josh has been selected for the AGR program and is taking a full-time slot in Auburn. He has been working a temporary full-time position locally since last Summer. With the return of his unit in a few months looming, he would go back to a regular NG Soldier and looking for a full-time job in the civilian world. It's not an easy task right now...so Josh has been applying ans interviewing for slots all over Alabama.

We are very excited about this opportunity for Josh and his family, however we are are saddened that they will be moving 4 hours away.

Peace!





Tuesday, January 1, 2013

It's a New Year Alright!

2013!  Who would've thunk?

It's hard to believe that a whole year had ended and a new year has begun. Just like that - in the snap of a finger. I'm sure I didn't do all that I wanted to do...resolved to do...hoped I'd do ...in 2012. I'm just as positive that I will - or won't - do the same for 2013.

Resolutions I WON't make because I KNOW I will break them:

1. Grieve less. I always think I will conquer this one..but I'm only lying to myself.

2. Lose weight. Not gonna happen! For many months I have (1) eaten less, (2) eaten healthy, (3) juiced, (4) become more active, (5) watched my weight....at the end of each day I am still the exact same weight. What does that tell me?? My body is comfortable at the weight I am at and I need to embrace it and love myself anyway!

3. I will value my friendships more and make time for my friends. Um...doubtful. If 2012 has taught me ANYTHING..it's that I know who my friends are..the ones that stick and the ones that are here by situation. I know who I can count on when the chips are down and who I can reach out to when I am crumbled on the floor in despair. "Best" friends have proven to be not so..and "true' friends have shown their true colors.

4. Learn something new. I learned a lot in 2012 but nothing like I would have expected. Let me put this in writing....I will learn something new this year. A language. A look. A place. A skills. A recreation. Something....

5. Save money. Who was I kidding last year with that one?I think I have 5.75 in my personal savings and $100 til payday. Granted...Rich and I have a joint accounts that I do not look at or focus on..I only keep up with MY account. I also bought 85% of Christmas for our 4 kid, 4 spouses, 2 grandchildren, husband with my account....so I guess that says something.

There are a few things I will strive for this year:

1. To spend my time with those that matter the most..the people that have my back..and love me despite myself - my family

2. To focus less on outside friendships/relationships and to STOP chasing them!

3. To use my portion of my pay to enhance the life I have been given.

4. To love myself and stop thinking I am not enough for myself or anyone.

Peace!

The Dark Days

I still have them...just without drinking through them. Sometime I wish I could, but it's not an option if I want to live. Peace