Have You Ever...

Ever have something so random happen that you say to yourself "Hmmm, now THAT's weird", or you ask yourself, "What in hell was that about"?

I heard from an old friend today. Over the course of a couple of years we had/have slowly lost touch, lost any 'real' connection. What was once a close, loving friendship lost it's substance and became just surface work. Life got in the way and our paths took different turns...it happens. It is what it is!

Then out of the wild blue yonder, I hear from this person just to see how I'm doing. WTH? Yea, THAT's weird that this person would really care. Too bad, so sad. I see the friendship for what it has been, what it is and what it will be tomorrow.

To be honest, I'm over it, o-v-e-r it. It's surface work only and I realize that we are no longer in the same place. Friendships should not feel like you are constantly having to 'work' to keep it going - it should just 'be'. I prefer to focus on the relationships that are real in my life,

WTH?

Peace.